Please point me to the most appropriate Board - 04/20/09 03:51 PM
I haven't been on the site for 4 years. Back then marriage #3 was unraveling, and the collective wisdom of the readers and responders was superb.
With that in mind, my (our) current purpose is to save a new relationship. Very briefly, a love-at-first-sight meeting evolved into living together with blended kids for 8 months. A month ago we separated.
The short reason we parted, and I wrote to her recently, is "that I wasn’t enough for you and you didn’t like it. My shortcomings got to you regularly, and you dealt with them in the way that you knew best. And I couldn’t take the abuse".
Her version is "different - if I had been enough for you, you would have cared enough to pay attention to the details".
Before exploring the details, can a moderator, or one of the Wise, point me to a board that would be best to air out the conflicts, communication errors, and best practices to help us move forward positively? It would be dearly appreciated.
With that in mind, my (our) current purpose is to save a new relationship. Very briefly, a love-at-first-sight meeting evolved into living together with blended kids for 8 months. A month ago we separated.
The short reason we parted, and I wrote to her recently, is "that I wasn’t enough for you and you didn’t like it. My shortcomings got to you regularly, and you dealt with them in the way that you knew best. And I couldn’t take the abuse".
Her version is "different - if I had been enough for you, you would have cared enough to pay attention to the details".
Before exploring the details, can a moderator, or one of the Wise, point me to a board that would be best to air out the conflicts, communication errors, and best practices to help us move forward positively? It would be dearly appreciated.