Uh-OH, I think I did a bad thing - 09/10/04 05:37 AM
HI everyone.....well last nite I got a phone call from WH's mom. Of course it wasnt long before we were talking about him.
Anyway, she made me so mad. I know she loves her S , but she started telling me how I never went anywhere with WH, never let her babysit the kids when they were small. She might as well said right to my face, your also to blame for his leaving. She said i took it personally that you never let me look after the kids. I said dont take it personally, i never let anyone look after my kids. Its just me, Im an overprotective mother, and very nervous where my kids are concerned.
Anyway, i then sort of lost my temper. I said, look i am the victim here, he's done all this, i didnt do nothing, i was a perfect wife the last two years. I think you should face the facts, he has hurt me and the kids, lied and cheated on me twice, he has done the wrong not me.
She then said well people change and fall out of love, and fall in love again. UUGGGGGGGGGG!!!
Anyway, we both calmed down and changed the subject.
Here's where it gets interesting. I know i should not have said the following, but i just couldnt help it.
Well i am just gonna move on now, actually I am dating someone (i'm not). Also, I said, I've got a job, as a waitress, so i will be meeting new people (job hasnt really come through).
I was just so mad. I know she will tell him what i said.
I guess you could say i LB'd to WH through his mom.....yikes
anyway, thanks for listening, opinions appreciated
A/C0810
Anyway, she made me so mad. I know she loves her S , but she started telling me how I never went anywhere with WH, never let her babysit the kids when they were small. She might as well said right to my face, your also to blame for his leaving. She said i took it personally that you never let me look after the kids. I said dont take it personally, i never let anyone look after my kids. Its just me, Im an overprotective mother, and very nervous where my kids are concerned.
Anyway, i then sort of lost my temper. I said, look i am the victim here, he's done all this, i didnt do nothing, i was a perfect wife the last two years. I think you should face the facts, he has hurt me and the kids, lied and cheated on me twice, he has done the wrong not me.
She then said well people change and fall out of love, and fall in love again. UUGGGGGGGGGG!!!
Anyway, we both calmed down and changed the subject.
Here's where it gets interesting. I know i should not have said the following, but i just couldnt help it.
Well i am just gonna move on now, actually I am dating someone (i'm not). Also, I said, I've got a job, as a waitress, so i will be meeting new people (job hasnt really come through).
I was just so mad. I know she will tell him what i said.
I guess you could say i LB'd to WH through his mom.....yikes
anyway, thanks for listening, opinions appreciated
A/C0810