I suspect either OW or OW Husband have made up stuff I didn't say during my conversations with her husband and told WH. Stuff like I hired a private detective to take pictures of them, that I'm going to take my WH for all he's worth (which ain't much). That is the stuff WH is throwing at me...and saying that I can't be believed or trusted.
In other words, your WS is making crap up in order to scare you off and put you on the defensive! And it is working! lol
Trixie, settle down and be realistic here. If you took the crack pipe away from the crack addict, would you expect him to give you roses and kisses? C'mon now. It is the exact same principle with an affair. That is what you seem to be expecting from your WS after you just interfered in his affair in a huge way. Stop listening to this nonsense and stop allowing yourself to become alarmed at his fury.
Continue to call the OWH and tell him that your H is still in touch with the OW. You have them on the ropes right now and they are desperately trying to trick you into lettting them back up. Don't be naive enough to allow them to fool you. KEEP THEM DOWN while you have the chance, all the OWH AGAIN tomorrow and DO NOT DENY to your H that you have a P.I. following them! He is just fishing for information!
Whenevr your H tells you that OWH is saying certain things, thank him for telling you and tell him you will be calling OWH to clarify things. Tell him you are in DAILY CONTACT!
and saying that I can't be believed or trusted.
lololol! now, that is really funny! <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" /> Tell him that he can trust you to do everything in your power to interfere in his affair and that he better believe that!