Nervous about tomorrow. - 09/27/05 02:54 AM
Well, WH has session with SH tomorrow morning....I am nervous and hopeful at the same time. WH wanted to back out last night, I restated my position and WH said that he didn't see what good it would do. He said that he didn't understand what kind of information he could gather that would help. I said that at the least, it would help SH assess my situation. I had to dig into a litte bit more of what SH gave me to say last night and again today.
WH said o.k. that he would talk to SH. I believe $$ is a big part of WH concern with this route I am taking. It is costly, so I am not sure how many sessions I will be able to foot the bill for......
Today WH was in a babbling frame of mind. We were both at home today & when WH went out to do some errands I asked him if he could leave his work phone here. He made some lame excuse and then said he wanted it with him in case OW called him. ARGH. He said that the haven't been in contact for such a long time and that is why he has been so down/upset lately.
Hmmm....I guess I just happened to snoop at the right moment and see the text message OW sent on Friday. Maybe his definition of contact is different than mine? Maybe he should fill me in on his definition b/c they obviously differ??
He said that he just couldn't cut off contact until the R ran its course??? I said what does that mean? He said that he needed to see where it would go.
I said Yeah, & in the meantime I am supposed to just hang out and wait? He said, No, I don't expect you to do that.
He is still in limbo land - his exact words.
So, can anybody give some hints on what SH might do with a WH????? What is his strategy usually?? I am so curious!!!
This could be the one and only chance for him to counsel WH.
I invited WH to sleep in our bed last night & he hesitated, but said o.k. We were both going to bed at the same time for a change & I just wanted him next to me. It was nice, but he's in the other room again tonight....
ML - dilemma here....OWH e-mailed me today to see if there was anything new. I haven't answered him back. Trying to wait and see what SH advises....WH is finally allowing hugs and having conversations with me again!
Kimberly
D-Day, May 14th
DS, age 6
Married 13 years
Re-exposed Sept 7th......WH not wearing ring...sleeping in other room
WH said o.k. that he would talk to SH. I believe $$ is a big part of WH concern with this route I am taking. It is costly, so I am not sure how many sessions I will be able to foot the bill for......
Today WH was in a babbling frame of mind. We were both at home today & when WH went out to do some errands I asked him if he could leave his work phone here. He made some lame excuse and then said he wanted it with him in case OW called him. ARGH. He said that the haven't been in contact for such a long time and that is why he has been so down/upset lately.
Hmmm....I guess I just happened to snoop at the right moment and see the text message OW sent on Friday. Maybe his definition of contact is different than mine? Maybe he should fill me in on his definition b/c they obviously differ??
He said that he just couldn't cut off contact until the R ran its course??? I said what does that mean? He said that he needed to see where it would go.
I said Yeah, & in the meantime I am supposed to just hang out and wait? He said, No, I don't expect you to do that.
He is still in limbo land - his exact words.
So, can anybody give some hints on what SH might do with a WH????? What is his strategy usually?? I am so curious!!!
This could be the one and only chance for him to counsel WH.
I invited WH to sleep in our bed last night & he hesitated, but said o.k. We were both going to bed at the same time for a change & I just wanted him next to me. It was nice, but he's in the other room again tonight....
ML - dilemma here....OWH e-mailed me today to see if there was anything new. I haven't answered him back. Trying to wait and see what SH advises....WH is finally allowing hugs and having conversations with me again!
Kimberly
D-Day, May 14th
DS, age 6
Married 13 years
Re-exposed Sept 7th......WH not wearing ring...sleeping in other room