Abit of an issue here. I need advice please - 11/10/05 11:42 PM
Hello everyone I'm new here so bear with me.
I'm 27 and I am married and we have a beautiful daughter togehter. Me and my wife marries back in July and she had our daughter in August. Now let me back up her for a minute. I DID NOT MARRY her becuase she was pregnate, I did it because I love her.
Now my issue is this..About three days after my daughter was born my wife's mother came down from Wichita, Ks. to see the baby. I thought everything was fine until my wife told me she was going back with her mother. Me at the time I was working and I couldn't just up and leave or I would have but I did go up there this past month only to be racked with the same pain all over again. Her mother did not want me there at all and I had to leave and she told me my wife was not comming with me. I could her her crying in the other room as well..It took all my strength to not get an attitude. My wife wants us to be together but her mother is so say holding her and my child hostage because she does not like me. I thought marriage meant me and my wife were a team and we were supposed to be together until death? I do not know what to do anymore and I don't want this marriage to end, for our childs sake I do not want that.
I don't think that it's too healthy for the child not to have both parents around either. I have no way of going back up there and getting my wife and child either, I am really afraid that this will end though.
I talked to my wife on the phone but she cannot talk to me without her mother listening in on us and such. The mail is the same way, her mother reads her mail before she does.
I wish I knew what to do weather it be a legal matter or what...If anyone can advise me and help give me some ray of hope pleas by all means do so..
Posting this on the net is like a last resort for me because I've run out of options.
ALso I told my wife I would buy her a bus or plane ticket but theres no promise she will get on it due to the fact she has to have her mother take her everywhere. My wife told me she would do it but I'm not so sure anymore.
Thanks for any help everyone.
I'm 27 and I am married and we have a beautiful daughter togehter. Me and my wife marries back in July and she had our daughter in August. Now let me back up her for a minute. I DID NOT MARRY her becuase she was pregnate, I did it because I love her.
Now my issue is this..About three days after my daughter was born my wife's mother came down from Wichita, Ks. to see the baby. I thought everything was fine until my wife told me she was going back with her mother. Me at the time I was working and I couldn't just up and leave or I would have but I did go up there this past month only to be racked with the same pain all over again. Her mother did not want me there at all and I had to leave and she told me my wife was not comming with me. I could her her crying in the other room as well..It took all my strength to not get an attitude. My wife wants us to be together but her mother is so say holding her and my child hostage because she does not like me. I thought marriage meant me and my wife were a team and we were supposed to be together until death? I do not know what to do anymore and I don't want this marriage to end, for our childs sake I do not want that.
I don't think that it's too healthy for the child not to have both parents around either. I have no way of going back up there and getting my wife and child either, I am really afraid that this will end though.
I talked to my wife on the phone but she cannot talk to me without her mother listening in on us and such. The mail is the same way, her mother reads her mail before she does.
I wish I knew what to do weather it be a legal matter or what...If anyone can advise me and help give me some ray of hope pleas by all means do so..
Posting this on the net is like a last resort for me because I've run out of options.
ALso I told my wife I would buy her a bus or plane ticket but theres no promise she will get on it due to the fact she has to have her mother take her everywhere. My wife told me she would do it but I'm not so sure anymore.
Thanks for any help everyone.