ED Problems? Part of Affairs? - 07/27/06 08:01 PM
My H and I are 9 months after D Day. NC as far as I can tell. He is very remorseful and does everything I ask.
Immediately after D Day we went thru the "honeymoon period" of having sex everyday. After a few months that became a more normal 2 or 3 times a week. Now it is once a week and I suspect he never has O's. He can barely get thru the act without Viagra. When I try to question him (gently), he denies a problem and says everything is normal. He pretends to reach O. I get the feeling he is just trying to fulfill his husbandly duty to me and is getting no pleasure.
I worry that this is a sign of renewed A's but can find no evidence to support this. He is 55 and maybe this is age catching up with his libido. He is under a lot of stress from changing jobs (it's a better one with a different company).
I don't know what to do to help him, since he won't discuss it with me.
Immediately after D Day we went thru the "honeymoon period" of having sex everyday. After a few months that became a more normal 2 or 3 times a week. Now it is once a week and I suspect he never has O's. He can barely get thru the act without Viagra. When I try to question him (gently), he denies a problem and says everything is normal. He pretends to reach O. I get the feeling he is just trying to fulfill his husbandly duty to me and is getting no pleasure.
I worry that this is a sign of renewed A's but can find no evidence to support this. He is 55 and maybe this is age catching up with his libido. He is under a lot of stress from changing jobs (it's a better one with a different company).
I don't know what to do to help him, since he won't discuss it with me.