More Unfaithful - 04/01/07 12:12 PM
I spent last night on our couch as a result of issues my unfaithfulness has caused in my marriage. I seek your assistance in dealing with a situation in my life that has recently come to my attention, I suffer from sex addiction and that I have been in active addiction all my life. I found the Sex and Love Addicts website and have sought help from them by joining their online Yahoo! Group. There is unfortunately no group meetings I am able to find at this time in area where I live.
Can you direct to a place or person where I can receive help for this issue? I am prepared to travel anywhere for any period of time necessary in order to get the help I need. I am willing to pay for the room, food and board of a qualified person to come to my area to assist me. I am motivated and I want help. I understand that I must get and I am willing to do what ever I need in order to get that help.
My history with my wife has put me in a place where I am no longer trusted. What do you think about if I add my wife to my email server so she automatically receives a copy of all emails I send?
I have in my database many women. Some of these woman are business contacts and some are not. How do I purge my database? Do I purge my database?
Do you have any homework assignments I can do to help this situation?
I have spoke with my partners and cancelled all travel plans of any kind for the next ninety days in order to be able to stay put and focus on my issues and our marriage. Do you have any other suggestions?
I have been brutally honest with my wife, advising her of inbound phone calls from any women, what they did and do mean to me, and have shown her all email communications. I have clearly, once again by doing so, upset her a great deal. She has red an email from a woman who was trying to initiate a sexual conversation with to which I did not respond.
Do you have any suggestions of how best to communicate or what is the correct course of action on my part when a woman reaches out to me, that I had sexual feelings for?
Can you direct to a place or person where I can receive help for this issue? I am prepared to travel anywhere for any period of time necessary in order to get the help I need. I am willing to pay for the room, food and board of a qualified person to come to my area to assist me. I am motivated and I want help. I understand that I must get and I am willing to do what ever I need in order to get that help.
My history with my wife has put me in a place where I am no longer trusted. What do you think about if I add my wife to my email server so she automatically receives a copy of all emails I send?
I have in my database many women. Some of these woman are business contacts and some are not. How do I purge my database? Do I purge my database?
Do you have any homework assignments I can do to help this situation?
I have spoke with my partners and cancelled all travel plans of any kind for the next ninety days in order to be able to stay put and focus on my issues and our marriage. Do you have any other suggestions?
I have been brutally honest with my wife, advising her of inbound phone calls from any women, what they did and do mean to me, and have shown her all email communications. I have clearly, once again by doing so, upset her a great deal. She has red an email from a woman who was trying to initiate a sexual conversation with to which I did not respond.
Do you have any suggestions of how best to communicate or what is the correct course of action on my part when a woman reaches out to me, that I had sexual feelings for?