Plan B. Questions about communications with OW'H. - 10/26/09 04:58 PM
I let OW's H (they have been separated and I previously exposed the affair to him), know my WH had moved out and that OW'H might see the affairees out and about (she lives very close to her separated H). It was a simple, matter of fact talk (I thought!)
He called her and embellished a lot of stuff (outright lying about me calling him and saying provocotive stuff). Obviously he is peeved still about the affair and years of dishonesty and hiding it from him.
OW told my WH ....and then called her estranged H back and so on.
Talk about a true case of 'telephone' where things get goofier and goofier.
Now. OW's H called me back to make sure I said stuff (to cover his basis....lol) and
I was sucked into a vortex I don't want to be in.
OW has made me out to be a lying,crazed fatal attraction lady (talk about projecting your own issues on someone else!) Her estranged H is obviously playing headgames with her (maybe himself) too. Sheesh
All because I informed OW's H about the separation.
Wow.
In plan B......do you need to stop talking to the OW's H? Stop exposing to new folks?
What do you think?
Calm me down here and help me get back into the plan B.....sanctuary of not being in the drama!
He called her and embellished a lot of stuff (outright lying about me calling him and saying provocotive stuff). Obviously he is peeved still about the affair and years of dishonesty and hiding it from him.
OW told my WH ....and then called her estranged H back and so on.
Talk about a true case of 'telephone' where things get goofier and goofier.
Now. OW's H called me back to make sure I said stuff (to cover his basis....lol) and
I was sucked into a vortex I don't want to be in.
OW has made me out to be a lying,crazed fatal attraction lady (talk about projecting your own issues on someone else!) Her estranged H is obviously playing headgames with her (maybe himself) too. Sheesh
All because I informed OW's H about the separation.
Wow.
In plan B......do you need to stop talking to the OW's H? Stop exposing to new folks?
What do you think?
Calm me down here and help me get back into the plan B.....sanctuary of not being in the drama!