Should ex check up on ow? - 04/23/01 04:32 AM
Just needing some of your expert opinions <P>Had a long talk today with exh. He says that he realizes he still loves ow and cannot just let her go yet. He realizes that he cannot have relationship with me or anyone else until she is out of his life. <P>He suspects that she is living with another man but won't admit it. He says he wants to find out for sure and this will help him write her off for good if he is right about his suspicions. I think he wants to drive by and check out where he "thinks" she may be living.<P>She has cheated on him in the past several times but he says he has forgiven her for those. If she is lying to him about where she is living, he will be able to get closure because he will know she was just using him. However, he says even if he finds that she has been lying, it does not mean that we will work things out between us.<P>I told him that I'm not sure that that is such a good idea that he check up on her. I also told him I was uncomfortable about him telling her about my pregnancy. <P>He is sitting here as I type this, and I told him he could read any responses. I felt that maybe you all could help shed some light on this situation. Thanks!<P>