Wife wants to live with lover - 11/25/02 11:36 PM
It has been over two months since I posted anything new. I have not lost track of MB or some of the excllent advice. I went to plan B. It seemed to work very well. I cut her off from everything. Do not call,no visitation...zippo.
She has now started to come around a little bit. She even called lat week to tell me how much she misses me and how much she loves me. But a funny thing has been happening. (Though it is painful to think that she might come back). I am finding my bearings rapidly now and beginning to think that there is a life without her.
I am also wondering if she is worth the trouble anymore. I may be patient for a litte while longer...but not much. I have a set a date to file for divorce. But not before the holidays (thoI wanted to after the way she treated all of us). But I will wait..She has even told some of herfriends that she doesn't want a divorce,even tho six weeks ago she did want one. She will be very surprised when she gets the paperwork. I am going for the whole enchilada. Custody, support... everthing.
She has now started to come around a little bit. She even called lat week to tell me how much she misses me and how much she loves me. But a funny thing has been happening. (Though it is painful to think that she might come back). I am finding my bearings rapidly now and beginning to think that there is a life without her.
I am also wondering if she is worth the trouble anymore. I may be patient for a litte while longer...but not much. I have a set a date to file for divorce. But not before the holidays (thoI wanted to after the way she treated all of us). But I will wait..She has even told some of herfriends that she doesn't want a divorce,even tho six weeks ago she did want one. She will be very surprised when she gets the paperwork. I am going for the whole enchilada. Custody, support... everthing.