Questions about divorce??? - 07/01/07 05:26 AM
I was just checking to see if anyone know how nasty D can get? She was the one who tore my heart out when I wanted this to be as easy as possible, but WW is the one who left and wants all she can get! This is what’s going on..
Ok, we initially agreed on what we would split up, to which I said that’s fine. Now fast forward 4 months, she wants the other half of the dishes that we got for our wedding and half of my 401K. Which she initially said that she was not going to take half of the 401K. My L told me in the beginning that I was being very generous to her by letting her take what she wanted and not getting half of what I deserved.
Now that she wants the 401K, I will loose $2K of that and she will gain $2K. I never knew that she was so greedy, all of this just to get 2K I’m going to get half of her bonuses from her job, half of the marriage debt will get split in half (I was going to take my $12K of CC debt and let her have her $5K of CC debt). The bank accounts will be split down the middle, I was paying all the utility bill in the house including the mortgage, her student loans, her car payment and her car insurance. This is with her making $25K a year more that I was. So she said that she would put most of her money in savings for us and she took all of that when she left.
She also had some cosmetic surgery in 2004, boob job, tummy tuck and a thigh lift, that was $18K. She got a loan for $15K and took $3K of marital property to go and get that done. My L said that she have to pay me back for half of that. I know all this is fair by law buy do you guys think that my L is going too far with this?
Ok, we initially agreed on what we would split up, to which I said that’s fine. Now fast forward 4 months, she wants the other half of the dishes that we got for our wedding and half of my 401K. Which she initially said that she was not going to take half of the 401K. My L told me in the beginning that I was being very generous to her by letting her take what she wanted and not getting half of what I deserved.
Now that she wants the 401K, I will loose $2K of that and she will gain $2K. I never knew that she was so greedy, all of this just to get 2K I’m going to get half of her bonuses from her job, half of the marriage debt will get split in half (I was going to take my $12K of CC debt and let her have her $5K of CC debt). The bank accounts will be split down the middle, I was paying all the utility bill in the house including the mortgage, her student loans, her car payment and her car insurance. This is with her making $25K a year more that I was. So she said that she would put most of her money in savings for us and she took all of that when she left.
She also had some cosmetic surgery in 2004, boob job, tummy tuck and a thigh lift, that was $18K. She got a loan for $15K and took $3K of marital property to go and get that done. My L said that she have to pay me back for half of that. I know all this is fair by law buy do you guys think that my L is going too far with this?