In hind site it is easy to say I stayed to long but I would like to think that I left nothing undone in the attempt to save my marriage. It makes it hard for me to tell someone to give up, I just don't think I would ever feel I have enough of the facts on this board to make that call.
But I have to agree that as I read some of the threads I want to say screaming Run do not walk to the closest exit!!!!!!!
I am so with you on that one. I rarely tell a person to hang it up, because you just never know. I have seen some pretty bad marriages come back from the dead. But you and I both know there are ones that will never make it. Those are usually pretty obvious to all concerned. And the ones that send me screaming are the ones who come here for
YEARS and nothing ever changes and nothing ever will change. When nothing changes, it is a pretty good indication the person is not interested in change. People who really want change.....change.
SmilingWoman, I can't remember what you said exactly when you first arrived, but I do remember being shocked at how bad it was for you. And I am still so very proud of you for getting yourself out of that nightmare. You are one of my heroes. You are a true MB success story.