should I tell her that Her BF is cheating on her already? - 06/21/00 03:38 AM
Hi friends, I haven't been around much lately. Too busy trying to get some sanity back in my life I guess. My Divorce was official yesterday......and I'm ok with it. I wouldn't have believed it a couple of months ago, but things are looking up. The girls and I are getting into a routine, and things are starting to smooth out as far as the visitation thing, at least as much as they can.<P>Anyway, here's my question. Through a friend of a friend, I have found out that things aren't as rosey for my X in fantacy land as she thinks it is(hey! I don't have to type STBX anymore!!, I always screwed that up! ). It seems that the [censored] that caused my X to walk out is looking for love elsewhere already. The thing is, I'm possitive my X has no clue he's doing this. It would be easy for me to blow this jerk out of the water and show my X what he's been up to, but should I?<P>I guess part of me wants revenge....for the pain she put me and the kids and family through, but part of me says let her find out on her own, stay out of it. I know that there is a better chance of Bill Clinton getting re-elected than there is of me even considering taking her back. That' not at all my motivation. But at the same time, I don't want her to find out after a visit to the Gyno for a strange itch that he's as faithful with her as he was with his wife when he started boinking my X.<P>So what do I do folks? I know there are a lot of you that would love to be in this situation with your X, but really.......what would you do if you had the chance?<P>