how do i share this with my stbx and keep my anonymity ??? - 09/06/01 06:47 PM
i really want to share a lot of things from this site with my stbxh... i would like him to come into the forums here and read and possibly post, but i can't do it because he already knows my screen name because it is the same as my e-mail address... not good at change... i'll buy the same shoe in 3 different colors... <P>i want him to come here and gain some insight, but he will instanly see my posts and read and i think draw some negetive conclusions, or be offended that i have told people about him... please advise... we are playing around with being back together. even though the d process is complete and my d will be final any day now... <P>we have lots of issues and i believe this can be as helpful to him as it is to me... if we do reconcile i want there to be some healing involved... i don't want to get into the same sick/toxic, tat for tat crap we have been going through all these years... please help...