What kind of a dream was this?!!! - 02/16/04 07:05 PM
A couple of days ago - I was rehashing my STBXH behaviors with a friend. After we got married - my friends found out that he wasn't ever faithful to me - we all just didn't know it! So - on this trip back down memory lane - last night I had a nightmare. It went something like this ...
My STBXH comes by to get his remaining belongings & brings OW with him! Then, they start going in on their relationship - how they met, how long they have been together - all trying to get under my skin. They are so in love ... yadda ... yadda All of the other details are just so fuzzy, but it just angered me & upset me so to let them INVADE my dreams! And then - it was like they wouldn't go away - I kept telling them - you got your stuff, leave. I'd close a door & they'd magically reappear when I went into another room. It was just too much for me - in the dream I cried. In real life, I woke up po'd that my previously luxorious slumber was invaded by dumb & dumber.
What the world is this about? <img border="0" title="" alt="[Confused]" src="images/icons/confused.gif" /> Why would I be dreaming about them? Am I not comfortable with something? I have been announcing to the world now about the impending divorce. I am ready to get on with my life. I have known for MONTHS it was time to file, time to move to a new chapter - rather a new book. Whatever the deeper issue - I am calling to schedule an appointment with my counselor. I KNOW I still have anger issues with these two morons; and maybe I better get it resolved quickly if I want happy dreams again ....
Vee
My STBXH comes by to get his remaining belongings & brings OW with him! Then, they start going in on their relationship - how they met, how long they have been together - all trying to get under my skin. They are so in love ... yadda ... yadda All of the other details are just so fuzzy, but it just angered me & upset me so to let them INVADE my dreams! And then - it was like they wouldn't go away - I kept telling them - you got your stuff, leave. I'd close a door & they'd magically reappear when I went into another room. It was just too much for me - in the dream I cried. In real life, I woke up po'd that my previously luxorious slumber was invaded by dumb & dumber.
What the world is this about? <img border="0" title="" alt="[Confused]" src="images/icons/confused.gif" /> Why would I be dreaming about them? Am I not comfortable with something? I have been announcing to the world now about the impending divorce. I am ready to get on with my life. I have known for MONTHS it was time to file, time to move to a new chapter - rather a new book. Whatever the deeper issue - I am calling to schedule an appointment with my counselor. I KNOW I still have anger issues with these two morons; and maybe I better get it resolved quickly if I want happy dreams again ....
Vee