A couple of days ago - I was rehashing my STBXH behaviors with a friend. After we got married - my friends found out that he wasn't ever faithful to me - we all just didn't know it! So - on this trip back down memory lane - last night I had a nightmare. It went something like this ...

My STBXH comes by to get his remaining belongings & brings OW with him! Then, they start going in on their relationship - how they met, how long they have been together - all trying to get under my skin. They are so in love ... yadda ... yadda All of the other details are just so fuzzy, but it just angered me & upset me so to let them INVADE my dreams! And then - it was like they wouldn't go away - I kept telling them - you got your stuff, leave. I'd close a door & they'd magically reappear when I went into another room. It was just too much for me - in the dream I cried. In real life, I woke up po'd that my previously luxorious slumber was invaded by dumb & dumber.

What the world is this about? <img border="0" title="" alt="[Confused]" src="images/icons/confused.gif" /> Why would I be dreaming about them? Am I not comfortable with something? I have been announcing to the world now about the impending divorce. I am ready to get on with my life. I have known for MONTHS it was time to file, time to move to a new chapter - rather a new book. Whatever the deeper issue - I am calling to schedule an appointment with my counselor. I KNOW I still have anger issues with these two morons; and maybe I better get it resolved quickly if I want happy dreams again ....

Vee

I'm not a dream interpretor, but here's a guess.

You seem very preoccupied with them and how they are doing. Also, you may be confronted with them at every turn in your life...maybe mutual friends or activities are there to constantly trigger that no matter where you go, they're always there (thus they are behind every door). Maybe you feel that there is no escape from constant reminder of their relationship.

Or I could be way off the mark...