Sorry guys. I know you are right. Give the brain damaged bird a break.

Isn't it great when others tell you what you tell others too?

((((BR))))

You're still gettin' a hug though~~~>

Mrs. W

Can I myself?

Sure can. I do it ALL the time.

Thank you. Those are always welcome.

LOL well that makes me feel soooooo much better.

I don't think WH saw my post anyway. Not sure if he will post more tonight or not until tomorrow. I will shut up and chew on some popcorn.

Keep that munching DOWN. I am trying to get my kiddos to go to sleep. HEHEHEHE

{{{{BR}}}}}}...

OHHHH sweetie....I'm truly, truly sorry for this latest Dday....my heart is breaking for you....How are YOU holding up???...(even if you don't want a thread....)...

this is TRUE bullcrap......absolute crap...

not2fun

BR Just hugs...sometimes it takes reaching that low place that the only place to go is up.

{{{{{{{BR}}}}}}}}



Just keep this BR love thread, K? and just let us know your okay.

((((BR))))) Hope you're doing okay.

b_r ~ I am so sorry this has happened. I really want to kick your H in the youknowwhat so I'm not posting to him much.

I've been through a FR which is similar to what you've just been through.

My email addy is marriedforever2006@yahoo.com if you need someone to talk to who has had multiple d-days as well.

(((hugs)))

(((BR)))

I have been through 2 full blown PA's of my H's and multiple FR's/DDays. Like MF, I get it and if you need a shoulder I am happy to talk. Just ask the mods or MF for my email addy.

So sorry to hear this news BR. You are a great poster here and help so many others selflessly.

To be honest, you've always come across as a no-nonsense tough as nails kinda gal on here. I'm surprised your WH is even alive to start his own thread here.....

My prayers go out to you.

b_r,

I am so sorry to hear about the new d-day. Hugs to you.

Hey BR,

I am really sorry to hear the news. You have been awesome at helping so many folks around here -- myself included, of course -- so we are here to help in any way we can.

TB

Sorry Raven,

I've always appreciated the support and advice you have given me.

I wish you the best.

{{{{{{{{{BR}}}}}}}}}}}

I'm so sorry this has happened to you again. You're a wonderful person, and your wisdom shines through in your posts.

Even though you will feel doubt, remember feelings are just feelings. You are wonderful, special, funny, smart, and altogether deserving of every good thing in life.

We are all here for you.

I just love you guys. Thank you for the kind words. Doing the poly research and making questions but the MB weekend won't be happening after all. I was mistaken on the dates and just now realized it.

No promises to WH. These are things to give me peace of mind for my own sanity.

b_r,I suggest you two do WHATEVER it takes to make it to the MBW. The follow-up help itself is worth it's weight in gold.

Seriously...do WHATEVER IT TAKES to get there. It was not convenient for us in the LEAST (we had about 2 days to make arrangements for 4 kids, cancel other plans, line-up babysitting, etc.) but I cannot tell you how worth it it was.

Just go.

We would still do the online course and phone counseling MF. WH will arrange that. Being there for Friday night is the problem. The logistics just won't work. The kids aren't the issue.

Ok...don't know much about the online course since we went to the weekend but it sounds like the next best plan...I am glad you will be doing this.

Please feel free to email me if you need to...I have been where you are right now.

Thanks MF. I know you know and it sucks.

It does suck...and not to freak you out but this time especially, it's probably going to get worse before it gets better for you.

Hang in there...the good thing is that this time you have the tools you know are needed to get through this and that will be helpful.

Exposure to OWH...check.

Next...

Good for you, doing exposure!

How are you holidng up BR? I've been thinking about your sitch and hope you are doing ok. I'm sure there are many here in the MB halls thinking about you and praying for the best outcome for you.

Yes, B/R, how you doing?

LG

I'm doing okay. No big mood swings...kind of flat....not sure if that is good or bad.

IMO, it's neither...you may be on your way to a state of withdrawal which is serving to "protect" you from more hurt.

You are right where you should be, it sounds like to me.

Well...I know that you don't need help with the concepts or plans, etc. More then anything BR I just wanted you to know that alot of us are thinking about you. You are a classy lady that has given alot of herself to this community. We are here to give back to you in any way that you need us.

BR- Just want to wish you the best today.