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 Sorry guys. I know you are right. Give the brain damaged bird a break. 
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2 awesome kids
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Many a good man has failed because he had a wishbone where his backbone should have been.
We gain strength, and courage, and confidence by each experience in which we really stop to look fear in the face... we must do that which we think we cannot.
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Isn't it great when others tell you what you tell others too?
((((BR))))
BW(Me)aka Scotty:37 DSx2: 10,12 DDAY2(PA)Nov27/09 Plan B Dec18/09 Personal R in works Scotty's THING  Newly Betrayed click herePraying for walls and doors. Thanx MM “Surviving is important. Thriving is elegant.” ? Maya Angelou PROGRESS NOT PERFECTION THANK YOU
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You're still gettin' a hug though~~~>  Mrs. W
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Isn't it great when others tell you what you tell others too?
((((BR))))  Can I  myself?
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Sure can. I do it ALL the time. 
BW(Me)aka Scotty:37 DSx2: 10,12 DDAY2(PA)Nov27/09 Plan B Dec18/09 Personal R in works Scotty's THING Newly Betrayed click herePraying for walls and doors. Thanx MM “Surviving is important. Thriving is elegant.” ? Maya Angelou PROGRESS NOT PERFECTION THANK YOU
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You're still gettin' a hug though~~~> Mrs. W Thank you. Those are always welcome.
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Many a good man has failed because he had a wishbone where his backbone should have been.
We gain strength, and courage, and confidence by each experience in which we really stop to look fear in the face... we must do that which we think we cannot.
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Sure can. I do it ALL the time. LOL well that makes me feel soooooo much better.
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2 awesome kids
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Many a good man has failed because he had a wishbone where his backbone should have been.
We gain strength, and courage, and confidence by each experience in which we really stop to look fear in the face... we must do that which we think we cannot.
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I don't think WH saw my post anyway. Not sure if he will post more tonight or not until tomorrow. I will shut up and chew on some popcorn.
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2 awesome kids
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Many a good man has failed because he had a wishbone where his backbone should have been.
We gain strength, and courage, and confidence by each experience in which we really stop to look fear in the face... we must do that which we think we cannot.
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Keep that munching DOWN. I am trying to get my kiddos to go to sleep. HEHEHEHE
BW(Me)aka Scotty:37 DSx2: 10,12 DDAY2(PA)Nov27/09 Plan B Dec18/09 Personal R in works Scotty's THING Newly Betrayed click herePraying for walls and doors. Thanx MM “Surviving is important. Thriving is elegant.” ? Maya Angelou PROGRESS NOT PERFECTION THANK YOU
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Sorry guys. I know you are right. Give the brain damaged bird a break. {{{{BR}}}}}}... OHHHH sweetie....I'm truly, truly sorry for this latest Dday....my heart is breaking for you....How are YOU holding up???...(even if you don't want a thread....)... this is TRUE bullcrap......absolute crap... not2fun
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BR Just hugs...sometimes it takes reaching that low place that the only place to go is up.
Me 55, XWH 53, M 22 years
D17, D30
alien replaces my husband "I'm not happy" -7/08
Discover OW-8/08 (his direct report and I work there also)
H moves out 10/1/08, confront Ow 10/28/08
Plan B 1/09
D final 12/09
Quote: "First thing you do is pray; when there is nothing else to do, continue to pray."
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![[Linked Image from cool-smileys.com]](http://www.cool-smileys.com/images/142.gif) {{{{{{{BR}}}}}}}} Just keep this BR love thread, K? and just let us know your okay. 
BW me-41 WH -39 DS - 9 married 12 Yrs together(?) 18 yrs when A discovered DDay aug 2007 found MB dec 2007 Moved out april 2008 still seeing OW Plan B Okay I fixed the ages, it was looking screwy. 
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DH45 - ME43 - DD18 - DD15
Thanx to MB my M is now back on track and better than ever. MB ROCKS!!!
Do you want me to tell you something really subversive? Love is everything it's cracked up to be. That's why people are so cynical about it. It really is worth fighting for, being brave for, risking everything for. And the trouble is, if you don't risk anything, you risk even more.
Erica Jong
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((((BR))))) Hope you're doing okay.
Widowed 11/10/12 after 35 years of marriage
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“In a sense now, I am homeless. For the home, the place of refuge, solitude, love-where my husband lived-no longer exists.” Joyce Carolyn Oates, A Widow's Story
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b_r ~ I am so sorry this has happened. I really want to kick your H in the youknowwhat so I'm not posting to him much.
I've been through a FR which is similar to what you've just been through.
My email addy is marriedforever2006@yahoo.com if you need someone to talk to who has had multiple d-days as well.
(((hugs)))
Me,BW - 42; FWH-46 4 kids D-Day #s1 and 2~May 2006 D-Day #3~Feb.27, 2007 (we'd been in a FR) Plan B~ March 3 ~ April 6, 2007 In Recovery and things are improving every day. MB rocks.
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(((BR)))
I have been through 2 full blown PA's of my H's and multiple FR's/DDays. Like MF, I get it and if you need a shoulder I am happy to talk. Just ask the mods or MF for my email addy.
Faith
me: FWW/BS 52 H: FWH/BS 49
DS 30
DD 21
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So sorry to hear this news BR. You are a great poster here and help so many others selflessly.
To be honest, you've always come across as a no-nonsense tough as nails kinda gal on here. I'm surprised your WH is even alive to start his own thread here.....
My prayers go out to you.
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b_r,
I am so sorry to hear about the new d-day. Hugs to you.
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Hey BR,
I am really sorry to hear the news. You have been awesome at helping so many folks around here -- myself included, of course -- so we are here to help in any way we can.
TB
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Sorry Raven,
I've always appreciated the support and advice you have given me.
I wish you the best.
Me BH 40
Her XWW 34
Married 12 years
Feb 09 - PA #1 (w/married alcoholic)
Apr 09 - Started recovery, thought things were going well until...
Jan 10 - PA #2 (w/different guy on Facebook)
Dec 10 - Divorced
Now - very happy; no regrets
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