Day 4 - 09/06/11 07:39 PM
I am filled with a sense of emptiness although I don't deserve to find solace. My husband is the victim so I know he's hurting much worse than me. I am filled with a deep sense of sadness and tears are pooling in my eyes. I have tainted an otherwise stable and secure marriage...and it's all my fault, my contribution. My husband may never trust me again and the hard part of that is...there is no timeline...no expiration date of his pain, suffering, and mistrust. I hurt our foundation. I never knew what people were really talking about when they said how painful infidelity is. I just want to escape the pain...but I don't deserve to. I deserve to feel every bit of what I've created and double it...to suffer more than my husband is. I don't know who I am anymore. I've lost faith in myself and my character. I feel unsure in my feet and shoes. I will never know when my husband and I will feel like whole people again. As lOng as he's suffering, I will suffer knowing that I did this.
Does this ever get easier? Will these feelings ever go away for either of us?
I hate myself and despise myself. The words that come to my mind and sum up best are...what have I done???? Oh my God, what have I done????? So much self hatred and remorse is consuming me right now.
Does this ever get easier? Will these feelings ever go away for either of us?
I hate myself and despise myself. The words that come to my mind and sum up best are...what have I done???? Oh my God, what have I done????? So much self hatred and remorse is consuming me right now.