You gotta know when to fold 'em - 09/28/11 02:31 AM
My story was previously on here. Unfortunately, WH found out all of my info and I had to have the thread killed.
I have gotten great advice on here, and I thank you lovely men and ladies out there for helping me walk in the right direction regarding my marriage.
A tiny bit of backstory:
WH cheated with young female airman, I found out, he was supposed to drop her, but wasn't acting or doing anything to show me he really wanted his marriage or family. We separated for 2 months. Of course the affair continued. I moved back home, turned him in (he's military too) and there was supposed to be NC...well, there was. I notified his supers a second time, and now idk what is really going on, but I hope someone can get this all to stop. He is now in trouble for disobeying a direct order (not to have contact with OW.
He has said divorce several times now, and thats bc I called his supers and let them know he is cheating on me, his wife. He found out all of my info and was dumbfounded...he says he cant be married to someone that has done all that I have done.
To be clear, I have:
1. Exposed him to all of our family, my friends, and a few of his friends as well
2. Exposed her, via fb to her family (no responses)
3. Exposed him at work...twice
4. Created a thread on this forum asking for advice and sharing my story in detail
5. Kept track of all the basics (phone records, texts, etc.)
...and he says he cant be married to someone like me, that does the above things...
Lol.
Still gonna stand strong, hoping and praying this man will turn around soon and towards the Lord.
I have gotten great advice on here, and I thank you lovely men and ladies out there for helping me walk in the right direction regarding my marriage.
A tiny bit of backstory:
WH cheated with young female airman, I found out, he was supposed to drop her, but wasn't acting or doing anything to show me he really wanted his marriage or family. We separated for 2 months. Of course the affair continued. I moved back home, turned him in (he's military too) and there was supposed to be NC...well, there was. I notified his supers a second time, and now idk what is really going on, but I hope someone can get this all to stop. He is now in trouble for disobeying a direct order (not to have contact with OW.
He has said divorce several times now, and thats bc I called his supers and let them know he is cheating on me, his wife. He found out all of my info and was dumbfounded...he says he cant be married to someone that has done all that I have done.
To be clear, I have:
1. Exposed him to all of our family, my friends, and a few of his friends as well
2. Exposed her, via fb to her family (no responses)
3. Exposed him at work...twice
4. Created a thread on this forum asking for advice and sharing my story in detail
5. Kept track of all the basics (phone records, texts, etc.)
...and he says he cant be married to someone like me, that does the above things...
Lol.
Still gonna stand strong, hoping and praying this man will turn around soon and towards the Lord.