Cheating Wife, advice needed please.. - 05/07/12 02:34 AM
My wife and I have been married for 10 years and have a 2 year old son. About half a year ago I found out thru her that she had been having an affair and she has ended it and wants to work on us.
I was of course taken aback but wanted to make our marriage work. The man she was cheating with is a co-worker, lives out of state and is going thru a divorce. We started with counseling and then read the his needs/her needs book but thru all of that my wife continues to communicate with her affair partner.
She went to this guy b/c I was obviously not fulfilling her needs and he did. We talk and understand what both of us need. and now I am giving everything I have trying to fill her love tank and every need she has and she does not reciprocate in the slightest. . I am very much tired of being lied to, deceived and disrespected.
Is there anything else to do? I know some advice is to expose the affair to everyone but I think that will just end us without a chance.
I was of course taken aback but wanted to make our marriage work. The man she was cheating with is a co-worker, lives out of state and is going thru a divorce. We started with counseling and then read the his needs/her needs book but thru all of that my wife continues to communicate with her affair partner.
She went to this guy b/c I was obviously not fulfilling her needs and he did. We talk and understand what both of us need. and now I am giving everything I have trying to fill her love tank and every need she has and she does not reciprocate in the slightest. . I am very much tired of being lied to, deceived and disrespected.
Is there anything else to do? I know some advice is to expose the affair to everyone but I think that will just end us without a chance.