How to get H to see a doctor??? - 06/07/00 01:42 PM
My H is utterly phobic about doctors. He won't go to one unless he's really sick. He hasn't had a full checkup in all the time I've known him (he's 45, we are together 17 years), he smokes, and doesn't take as good care of himself as he should.<P>He refuses to have a urological checkup, which men his age ought to have.<P>He has been having stomach trouble for two weeks. Interestingly, it started with a visit from his father in which there was NO conflice (they used to not get along). Symptoms: fatigue, nausea, need to eat almost constantly but some foods come right back up.<P>This morning he went to work, puked up his breakfast, and came home.<P>And won't see a doctor.<P>I'm only moderately concerned about it being something serious, but I would like him to at least get checked out. He fears a GI series, and is phobic about doctors, well, sticking things into places where things usually come out.<P>Any suggestions on how I can get him to go? And no, saying gently "I love you and want you to be OK" doesn't do it.<P>I tried.<P>