I could use some well-reasoned help - 12/23/12 08:25 PM
Good afternoon, MB friends!
I've been aware of MB for a couple of years, have read all of the concepts, read HNHN, and have spent a bit of time reading the boards.
I'm an only parent to 3 kids; 21, 20, and 17. Their mom died 10 years ago. With the exception of two ill-advised, short term marriages directly following their mothers death, I've raised them on my own.
I became involved with a woman about three months ago. We are in love. But there are a couple of things that have been bothering me. Her best friend is involved with two different married men. My SO sees no issues with her friends behavior. My deceased former wife was a serial adulterer, so I, obviously, have issues with that.
She, my SO, was involved in an adulteress affair herself while married to he forme husband.
I do love her, and she loves me. Please help. I really want to become a buyer. But not if past behavior would indicate future behavior. BTW, we've both filled out the questionnaires and are, mostly, meeting each others EN's.
Thank you!
I've been aware of MB for a couple of years, have read all of the concepts, read HNHN, and have spent a bit of time reading the boards.
I'm an only parent to 3 kids; 21, 20, and 17. Their mom died 10 years ago. With the exception of two ill-advised, short term marriages directly following their mothers death, I've raised them on my own.
I became involved with a woman about three months ago. We are in love. But there are a couple of things that have been bothering me. Her best friend is involved with two different married men. My SO sees no issues with her friends behavior. My deceased former wife was a serial adulterer, so I, obviously, have issues with that.
She, my SO, was involved in an adulteress affair herself while married to he forme husband.
I do love her, and she loves me. Please help. I really want to become a buyer. But not if past behavior would indicate future behavior. BTW, we've both filled out the questionnaires and are, mostly, meeting each others EN's.
Thank you!