Dear Moderator,
How do I retrieve any text messages from my wife's company blackberry. She wont tell me password and there lies huge evidence of multiyear infidelity.
Would a PI investigation directly imperil her job if company policy broken on personal email? How dangerous is this road?
Dont really need her to get fired.

Popfish, as I understand it, you always need a password to get into a passworded phone.

As for the PI question - yes, if the affair is exposed at work as a result of a PI investigation she might get fired, but I don't understand your logic.

Would you rather she kept her job and continued the affair? Which is more important to you - her job, or the end of the affair and the rebuilding of your marriage? You can't have both under any circumstances, so please choose one.

I'm going to copy this post over to your main thread on Surviving an Affair. You will get many more responses to the exposure issue over there.

I encourage you to read Surviving an Affair by Dr Harley.
The first thing you need to do is expose your wife's affair. Expos� to employer, affair partners wife and family/ married friends, wife's family and married friends.
You can read about exposure on the Exposure Thread in Notable posts.

How I tricked my hubby into giving me his password:

People usually have a few passwords that they use for different things. I got access to his financial records by asking him for the password to his netflix account. Albeit he was half asleep at the time so didn't catch on.

Phone: In order to not act extremely suspicious, she will unlock the phone in your presence. Try to get her to send texts or make calls on your behalf while you are sitting next to her. Try to make out the password as she types it in. I don't know much about BBs but my WHs iphone was a four digit password. Turned out to be his year of birth. If you share bank accounts could be your pin.

Good luck gathering evidence.