Husband shows zero affection yet says helovesme - 12/28/16 07:20 PM
It's a case of whirlwind pregnancy and marriage
We both committed to eachother and with a tiny bud of love and affection we began this marriage as a blended family. It's been 5 years now.
I love him. He loves me he says. Yet I get no affection ever. I'm a giver. Constantly giving. I don't recieve. My love bank is near empty. He is amazing provider. Father. And he will hug and kids the kids and play with them. But not me. Never me. He can go weeks without affectionate behavior. He thinks sex is all I need and only every few weeks. He says stress is high but when will it ever not be? We have young kids but im telling you, I am always down for a flirtatious conversation or even a damn look. Just a look. An appreciative look of sexuality desire or even love. A cheesy word or SOMETHING. but I get nothing. And when I bring it up it is backfired into my face. He is well aware that I need affection. But apparently it isn't important? What's going on here? He says he loves me but I'm about to throw in the towel. We are not a typical started marriage but we are a good family and by God I try to please him and feel he is just not attracted anymore.
Suggestions?
We both committed to eachother and with a tiny bud of love and affection we began this marriage as a blended family. It's been 5 years now.
I love him. He loves me he says. Yet I get no affection ever. I'm a giver. Constantly giving. I don't recieve. My love bank is near empty. He is amazing provider. Father. And he will hug and kids the kids and play with them. But not me. Never me. He can go weeks without affectionate behavior. He thinks sex is all I need and only every few weeks. He says stress is high but when will it ever not be? We have young kids but im telling you, I am always down for a flirtatious conversation or even a damn look. Just a look. An appreciative look of sexuality desire or even love. A cheesy word or SOMETHING. but I get nothing. And when I bring it up it is backfired into my face. He is well aware that I need affection. But apparently it isn't important? What's going on here? He says he loves me but I'm about to throw in the towel. We are not a typical started marriage but we are a good family and by God I try to please him and feel he is just not attracted anymore.
Suggestions?