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Mmmm the point of view of the one who cheated....really? Why dont you tell us about that.
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I'm always curious about the point of view of the one who cheated. Well, there are forums set up for active cheaters and affair partnerts. Why not go there to find out their points of view and see if you can find any sympathy for them? Why come to MB, an anti-affair forum, where most posters are betrayed spouses struggling to deal with the affair that wrecked their marriages?
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What brought me here is that I am extremely frustrated and unhappy in my marriage right now. I thought I found a good place. But I am being met with a lot of hostility on the first day.
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Becuz he is a TROLL!!!!!!!!!!
BW me-41 WH -39 DS - 9 married 12 Yrs together(?) 18 yrs when A discovered DDay aug 2007 found MB dec 2007 Moved out april 2008 still seeing OW Plan B Okay I fixed the ages, it was looking screwy.
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What brought me here is that I am extremely frustrated and unhappy in my marriage right now. I thought I found a good place. But I am being met with a lot of hostility on the first day. Do you want to fix your Marriage?...then you are in the right place...do you want to cheat? Well then this is not the place to post.
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Wow, name calling, that is very mature. I thought that would atleast stay in the world cup forum.
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Does anyone ever feel sympathy for the person comitting the affair?
And for that matter, the 3rd party involved? Sympathy? No way. Empathy? No dice. Well, gee, how about pity, compassion, or any semblance of mercy? Forget about it...... I may actually have more sympathy for Tony Hayward.... TBC
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TROLL
From Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia
In Internet slang, a troll is someone who posts inflammatory, extraneous, or off-topic messages in an online community, such as an online discussion forum, chat room, or blog, with the primary intent of provoking other users into a desired emotional response[1] or of otherwise disrupting normal on-topic discussion.[2] In addition to the offending poster, the noun �troll� can also refer to the provocative message itself, as in that was an excellent troll you posted. While the term troll and its associated action, trolling, are primarily associated with Internet discourse, media attention in recent years has made such labels highly subjective, with 'trolling' being used to describe many intentionally provocative actions outside of an online context.
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BW me-41 WH -39 DS - 9 married 12 Yrs together(?) 18 yrs when A discovered DDay aug 2007 found MB dec 2007 Moved out april 2008 still seeing OW Plan B Okay I fixed the ages, it was looking screwy.
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Do I want to cheat? No
Have I thought about it? Yes
Have I had an opportunity to do so? No
Do I want things in my marriage to improve so that I can be happier? Yes
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Are you not concerned about the happiness of all parties involved?
Before, during, and after an affair? The posters who frequent this ANTI-AFFAIR forum believe that happiness comes from living honourably and not abusing other people. We believe that marital unhappiness often starts, and is always made worse, by an affair. There is no marital problem that is made better by having an affair. An affair simply wrecks the lives of innocent betrayed spouses and children, and of the wayward and affair partner, too.
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This is an inappropriate subject for a marriage building website. This forum is for the support of marriages, not adultery. We are locking this thread.
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