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Dr Harley's stance on exposure: "Exposure is very likely to end the affair, lifting the fog that has overcome the unfaithful spouse, helping him or her become truly repentant and willing to put energy and effort into a full marital recovery. In my experience with thousands of couples who struggle with the fallout of infidelity, exposure has been the single most important first step toward recovery." here Here are some radio clips where he has addressed this with callers to the radio show: This caller's wife has been in a 2 year affair and the man never exposed. He has kept it a secret the whole time. it starts about halfway through here - callers name is Ron: radio clip hereContinued with Ron - Dr H calls him an enabler: Part 11: radio clip here "It's very difficult to overcome an affair when you become an enabler, when you hide the secret."Dr Harley: "In my judgement exposure would have ended your wife's affair."Dr Harley telling BTintrouble to "expose the heck out of this affair" and do not offer forgiveness. radio clip here
"It is not the critic who counts; not the man who points out how the strong man stumbles, or where the doer of deeds could have done them better. The credit belongs to the man who is actually in the arena.." Theodore Roosevelt Exposure 101
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is there an Enabler's convention in town? 
"It is not the critic who counts; not the man who points out how the strong man stumbles, or where the doer of deeds could have done them better. The credit belongs to the man who is actually in the arena.." Theodore Roosevelt Exposure 101
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Dr Harley's stance on exposure: "Exposure is very likely to end the affair, lifting the fog that has overcome the unfaithful spouse, helping him or her become truly repentant and willing to put energy and effort into a full marital recovery. In my experience with thousands of couples who struggle with the fallout of infidelity, exposure has been the single most important first step toward recovery." here Here are some radio clips where he has addressed this with callers to the radio show: This caller's wife has been in a 2 year affair and the man never exposed. He has kept it a secret the whole time. it starts about halfway through here - callers name is Ron: radio clip hereContinued with Ron - Dr H calls him an enabler: Part 11: radio clip here "It's very difficult to overcome an affair when you become an enabler, when you hide the secret."Dr Harley: "In my judgement exposure would have ended your wife's affair."Dr Harley telling BTintrouble to "expose the heck out of this affair" and do not offer forgiveness. radio clip hereYour links don't seem to work:( In fact everyone's links to the radio things don't seem to work for me???
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FWW/BW (me)
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Blended Family with 7 kids between us
Too much hurt and pain on both sides that my brain hurts just thinking about it all.
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Here's the last one... Let us know if you're still having trouble. BTintrouble's radio clip
FWW/BW (me)
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Blended Family with 7 kids between us
Too much hurt and pain on both sides that my brain hurts just thinking about it all.
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Your links don't seem to work:( In fact everyone's links to the radio things don't seem to work for me??? [/quote] nikkin, I've seen in a couple of threads that you can't listen to radio clips. It sounds like you either don't have Flash installed or you have an outdated version. Go to http://get.adobe.com/flashplayer/ and see if installing the most recent version will help with this.
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