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click here Want to make sure this is not missed. It is a must hear!
"It is not the critic who counts; not the man who points out how the strong man stumbles, or where the doer of deeds could have done them better. The credit belongs to the man who is actually in the arena.." Theodore Roosevelt Exposure 101
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1. The WS cannot see or talk to the "lover" the rest of his/her life. Even if there is an OC.
2. The "lover" is a terrible offense to the betrayed spouse.
3. The unfaithful spouse (WH) should wait until the OC is 18 to see OC.
4. The unfaithful spouse (WW) never sees the OM again, even if the OM has visitation. Use an intermediary to transfer visitation.
5. There are risks of repeating affair behaviors when there is contact with the "lover".
6. Contact with the OW/baby mama is like inviting a rapist to Thanksgiving dinner.
7. Forgiveness is more than letting go. Forgiveness has conditions.
Matthew 18 has the best examples of Biblical forgiveness.
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These are just notes I made while listening to the radio show recording.
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Forgiveness has conditions.
Matthew 18 has the best examples of Biblical forgiveness. So are you going to leave us hanging or tell us what Matthew said?
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Time to pull out your Bible, The Road!
"It is not the critic who counts; not the man who points out how the strong man stumbles, or where the doer of deeds could have done them better. The credit belongs to the man who is actually in the arena.." Theodore Roosevelt Exposure 101
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Time to pull out your Bible, The Road! EGG ZAK LEE
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