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http://www.marriagebuilders.com/radio_program/play_segment.cfm?sid=1582

Jan had an affair and wants her husband to trust her again.

Listen closely as the details come out and as Dr. Harley asks Jan questions.


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Jan from Chicago.

Jan: "Im not going to do it any more."

Dr H: "And you want him to just trust you?"

Jan: "Yeah."
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Because she says she won't do it anymore. He should believe her.



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LOL

Jan is still in touch with OM.

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Wonder how they ended up.


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What Jan is really saying, "I'm going to continue to boff OM and if Tom doesn't like it, he can just listen to my lies and believe it isn't happening. I am completely happy with that and if he is not then HE is the one with the problem, not me. If he would just believe my lies then everything would be ok."


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Originally Posted by LostNtime
What Jan is really saying, "I'm going to continue to boff OM and if Tom doesn't like it, he can just listen to my lies and believe it isn't happening. I am completely happy with that and if he is not then HE is the one with the problem, not me. If he would just believe my lies then everything would be ok."

We played it on the family computer so the kids could listen to it too. Kids picked up on a hole lotta things. nice to see them paying attention.


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Originally Posted by LostNtime
What Jan is really saying, "I'm going to continue to boff OM and if Tom doesn't like it, he can just listen to my lies and believe it isn't happening. I am completely happy with that and if he is not then HE is the one with the problem, not me. If he would just believe my lies then everything would be ok."

Right! All he needs to do is trust her! They can't make their marriage work until he trusts her first!

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Originally Posted by celticvoyager
We played it on the family computer so the kids could listen to it too. Kids picked up on a hole lotta things. nice to see them paying attention.

CV, that is an awesome education you are providing your children.


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