What makes you think I didn't do that? SUPPOSITION.
Please stop being so unpleasant. Do you want help with your marriage, or are you only here to argue with people?
What we are saying is not based on "supposition". It is based on the account that your wife gave of what happened on the walk. If you feel that she hasn't given a full account, then please grow up and tell us what you experienced. Your smart put-downs are not accomplishing anything.
Your wife said that, on the first walk, you got quite a bit ahead of her and your daughter, and she asked you to wait, which you did. Is that true?
Did you get annoyed with her for not walking with you? Why, if so?
Did you tell your wife that it would make you happy if she would walk with you?
Did you say, at bedtime, that the whole day had been one of rejection from her? What are you describing as rejection here?
Did you snap at her for walking behind you in the supermarket? Why, if so?
Did you go to bed without her? Why, if so?
Did you know that you would upset her by going to bed without her? If so, why did you do it?
When your wife walked beside you the next day on the hike, did you tell her that you felt she was doing it because she was supposed to and not because she wanted to?
If you did say that, can you explain why you complained about your wife trying to do what she thought you wanted her to do? Wasn't getting her to walk with you the point of your complaints the day before?
Do you see that your behaviour towards your wife (going to bed alone) and the nature and the way that you complained (the whole day was ruined, she was only walking with you because she had to) was unpleasant?
