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Here is your future if you don't heed no contact.. #2493045 03/28/11 09:38 AM
Joined: Apr 2001 Posts: 92,985 Likes: 1 Texas M MelodyLane OP Member
OP MelodyLane Member M Joined: Apr 2001 Posts: 92,985 Likes: 1 Texas	This radio clip from Friday is the typical outcome when a couple does not move away from the OP. [when they live close by or continue to work together] This WH, Bob, and his OW lived a mile apart and the affair has been on and off for 3 1/2 years. The BW is now divorcing him and their little boy is severely depressed. This is what happens when one ignores Dr Harley's adamant recommendation for NO CONTACT FOR LIFE. We have seen this happen over and over again on the SAA board over the years. radio clip here Originally Posted by Dr Harley In spite of career sacrifices, friendships, and issues relating to children's schooling, I am adamant in recommending that there be no contact with a former lover for life. For many, that means a move to another state. But to do otherwise fails to recognize the nature of addiction and its cure. here "It is not the critic who counts; not the man who points out how the strong man stumbles, or where the doer of deeds could have done them better. The credit belongs to the man who is actually in the arena.." Theodore Roosevelt Exposure 101

Re: Here is your future if you don't heed no contact.. MelodyLane #2493318 03/29/11 09:17 AM
Joined: Apr 2001 Posts: 92,985 Likes: 1 Texas M MelodyLane OP Member
OP MelodyLane Member M Joined: Apr 2001 Posts: 92,985 Likes: 1 Texas	bump "It is not the critic who counts; not the man who points out how the strong man stumbles, or where the doer of deeds could have done them better. The credit belongs to the man who is actually in the arena.." Theodore Roosevelt Exposure 101

Re: Here is your future if you don't heed no contact.. MelodyLane #2493351 03/29/11 10:41 AM
Joined: Oct 2007 Posts: 7,449 S SusieQ Member
SusieQ Member S Joined: Oct 2007 Posts: 7,449	Great clip. Thanks for sharing Ddays 2007 and 2011 Plan B 6/21/11 Divorced July 2012 2 kids How to Plan B Correctly Parallel Parenting in Plan B

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