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Again with the windy proclamations of change - do, don't say. Wayward words are meaningless without action.

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Originally Posted by allgoodthings2
Originally Posted by BrainHurts
Why won't you change your phone number so OM can't contact you again.

Please read this What is Just Compensation?
I tried but we have a family plc can and my BH is the primary so he has to be with me.
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Originally Posted by alis
Again with the windy proclamations of change - do, don't say. Wayward words are meaningless without action.

First of all , FORMER wayward, secondly since I can't very well display my actions on the internet I have to use words. Finally, my actions will be seen by the only one who matters, my husband.

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Originally Posted by BrainHurts
Originally Posted by allgoodthings2
Originally Posted by BrainHurts
Why won't you change your phone number so OM can't contact you again.

Please read this What is Just Compensation?
I tried but we have a family plc can and my BH is the primary so he has to be with me.
Did you listen to the clips in here?

Yes we have. We are both going to get rid of smart phones and go back to simpler ways and my phone number will be changing as well. We are also relocating. There's no argument from me on what I need to do.

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Please keep your posts respectful and refrain from personal attacks.

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Originally Posted by allgoodthings2
Originally Posted by alis
Again with the windy proclamations of change - do, don't say. Wayward words are meaningless without action.

First of all , FORMER wayward, secondly since I can't very well display my actions on the internet I have to use words. Finally, my actions will be seen by the only one who matters, my husband.

Well your actions on this board haven't been much to write home about - this is an emergency room for couples whose lives have been turned upside down due to an affair..and you deceived them into helping you. Then after being prompted, you refuse to apologize. Now you are attacking our seasoned posters. Wow.

And you are wrong btw...Alis is a wonderful poster.


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Originally Posted by allgoodthings2
Originally Posted by alis
Again with the windy proclamations of change - do, don't say. Wayward words are meaningless without action.

First of all , FORMER wayward, secondly since I can't very well display my actions on the internet I have to use words. Finally, my actions will be seen by the only one who matters, my husband.

You need to realize that you write a lot of fluff. You make a lot of excuses, you hide truth to affect how others perceive you, including H and other posters.

I say this to you, because you have a serious character flaw about this, AND IT NEEDS TO CHANGE, if you want your H to start taking your word at face value.

Or, argue and proclaim you are born again (again... again.. again...), if you want to continue status quo. Your choice.

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As this couple is getting help directly from Dr. Harley, this thread is now locked.


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