Hi smartiepants2!

If not for the business and kids that tie us together, I'd probably have not much if anything to do with him either. Can't say I'd feel "indifferent" but maybe so - out of sight, out of mind, so to speak.

I guess my comments about people being angry and bitter stem from my own experience as a kid with parents who were that way, and I've seen plenty of others that way.

I've seen a few amicable exes but they seem to be the exception, not the rule.

Merry Christmas to you and yours!


F/40, DD15 DS13 M 1989 DDay his EA May 1998. S Aug 2004. D Dec 05. I filed. 4/07 Post-D Plan A with 180, with hopes of R. 6/23/07 XH said no to R. 8/24/07 Went on a date with someone new, "B". 1/22/08 Still seeing B, life is good! Learning and growing each day. Ask me about Geocaching!