Hi, everybody! How's it going? Just checking in to see who's still around and how things are going.

It's been an absolute whirlwind for us since 2024, but our marriage is stronger than ever! We've got five adult children now whom we are very proud of. Still using Marriage Builders every day - and I'm still listening to the radio show!

Hi, everybody! How's it going? Just checking in to see who's still around and how things are going.

It's been an absolute whirlwind for us since 2024, but our marriage is stronger than ever! We've got five adult children now whom we are very proud of. Still using Marriage Builders every day - and I'm still listening to the radio show!

I think the biggest issue here is that the sexual problem sounds like the result of years of resentment and feeling unheard, rather than simply having different preferences. If every attempt to communicate what you enjoy turns into conflict, it makes sense that sex itself has become associated with frustration instead of intimacy. You probably can't force yourself to suddenly want it again; rebuilding trust and making it safe for both of you to talk honestly about sex seems like the starting point.

It also sounds like both of you have gotten stuck in very rigid expectations of what sex should look like. Sometimes even exploring what interests you privately, whether that's reading, fantasies, or something like a futa game, can help you understand what you're actually missing without putting immediate pressure on your partner. The bigger question is whether the two of you can eventually discuss those differences without either person feeling attacked or dismissed.

I think there’s no fixed timeline for dating again after separation. For me, it would depend more on whether I felt emotionally ready and comfortable meeting someone new. I’d probably take things slowly, rebuild my confidence, and explore new interests along the way, including an AI hentai generator, before getting serious with someone again.