I worried about the same thing. But it wasnt until I fully let go (not, let go because I wanted my wife back...but just, let go!), that God was able to get her back to me.

By letting go, you are leaving the future up to God. And trusting Him to guide your ways. You cant lose that way, no matter what you ex does.

Standing in His Presence

FBS (me) (48)
FWW (41)
Married April 1993...
4 kids (19(B), 17(G), 14(B), 4(B))
Blessed by God more than I deserve
"If Jesus is your need to change seats!"

Link: The Roles of Husbands and Wives