Originally Posted By: badgas
My own experience is that if you don't have that "special feeling" towards your spouse, you never will. I cared about and loved my wife, but in hindsight I was never IN love with her, and feel like crap about that fact because that means 13 years wasted for both of us, and yes I got a similar "suck it up and stick with it" speach as well. As far as hurting him, which is more painful: the pain of a breakup, or continuing to live a charade?

then what was it? do you think you were in love before you were married, I am just curious, no judgement here.

Me-49 and staying there, course AARP sent me my card ugh
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