you say he's a wonderful honorable man
and that you respect and trust him
and that you find him physically attractive

are these not part of your definition of "in love"
and how do you define "in love"

do you have common interests?
do you have fun together?
do you enjoy his company when your not being intimate?

are you expecting to be head over heals crazy
for him like a love sick crushing teenager?

one last question...
how long were you engaged?

me -37 sahd
ww -33 executive
2 kids (5 & 1)