Well how would they be connected without my knowing it?

fantasy is not the sole domain of the adulterous. They may have felt a connection that was all in their mind.

isn't any info on the # of times a person thinks about sex derived from self reporting. You need to factor in the stigma deal when relying on women's veractiy in this area.
ok, I'll start, I dont actually care what stigma someone might attach to this. My # of thoughts...Maybe twice a day. IF I am not tired. Or have PMS. Or am busy. Or had SF in the last 48 hours.Or a bunch of other things I can easily let distract me from SF.

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