Mark, I had one more thought. In the research where men seemed to focus on the physical attributes more than women(the facial etc. vs the kindness, humor etc.) does that mean to you that the men were , neccessarily, more interested in sex? Couldn't a good sense of humor etc lead to sexual attraction without emotinal involvement?
My daughters seem to go nuts over certain male celbrities that have qualities other than good looks. Yet, clearly, these guys are not meeting any emotioanl needs.
And, isn't PA listed as an emotional need? So, if a guy wants sex with a really good looking woman, does that mean it is because she is filling an emotional need vs his merely wanting sex?