Originally Posted by rtv
He doesn't like me doing anything without him. I had to quit school because he complained so much about me "making myself accessable." Other issues are that anytime I don't answer my phone he gets upset. He constantly has to know where I am and what I am doing. Im getting claustrophobic!! I have no friends anymore because I have to make up excuses to why I can't go anywhere with them.

ARe you doing everything in your power to accommodate him in these things? Complaints are an irritation in a bad marriage, but an opportunity for change in a good marriage. It is good that he is telling you what bothers him, because if he didn't, he would soon just fall out of love with you.

"It is not the critic who counts; not the man who points out how the strong man stumbles, or where the doer of deeds could have done them better. The credit belongs to the man who is actually in the arena.." Theodore Roosevelt

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