Melody, if you read my earlier response, I do state to the OP that her husband's concerns are justifiable. I do ask her what she has done to help assuage his concerns.

There are some cases where MB might not work in a given circumstance. Doesn't mean it can't be picked up later on and tried again when that circumstance has changed for the better. I think misleading can go in either direction.

It is important to understand that the members of this community are peers and not professionals. This is a meeting place of people whom have been in shoes similar if not the same as yours. Each member will share their own experience, perspective, and opinion about various topics. Please keep this in mind as you discuss issues with the members of the community.

Last edited by Soolee; 01/21/10 11:22 AM.


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