Originally Posted by Pepperband
Doc, print out Marco's post.
Carry it with you at all times.

Added to Notable Posts thread.

I did just that before I read your post. Its terrific.

FWH, age 63. 24 years of narcissistic behavior, infidelity, and emotional abandonment of my BS, age 57, DancesWithGoats (DWG). D-day two years ago, leading to emotional breakdown. Been working MB program and toward spiritual transformation and personal growth since then, with some slow but real progress. DWG still with no trust, but with grief starting to subside a bit.