Originally Posted By: wulffpack_girl
In our situation, if he won't agree to counseling w/the Harleys, would it still be beneficial for me to seek it on my own?

Definitely. They can give you much better advice. They are all three licensed practicing therapists, but aren't allowed to call themselves that outside of their home state, so it's called "telephone coaching". Totally worth $200 for an hour. My wife and I were at a total impasse, me insisting on having complete transparency, her insisting she had a right to privacy, on January 6, and I was ready to kick her out over it (though that would have been an interesting proposition, considering she's a stay-at-home Mom). January 7 we started doing the homework she gave us, and it's been mostly even-keeled and better on the rollercoaster since then.

(Formerly Barnboy)
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