Originally Posted by HappyHiker
But I find myself obsessed with thoughts that she is still cheating, or that she will cheat again and just do a better job of covering her tracks. I have no evidence to believe this - it is just a worry, and it won't go away, no matter how much I try to ignore it and focus on the good we have together.

That can be easily remedied by breaking up with her. She is not marriage material, HH. Be grateful you found this all out before you got married, not after. You have been handed a GIFT of finding out before, don'[t squander it!

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