Originally Posted by MelodyLane
Originally Posted by CWMI
As you can see, I disagree with Mel about it working with men. laugh

I also had Steve Harley, though.

I got that from Dr Harley! And typically it does not work when women pursue men. But there is always the exception to every rule. grin

Well...I also offered up custody of the kids if he really thought we should separate instead of hanging out together. So perhaps my pursuit was more of a "fine! You do everything then, I'll take a breather, thanks!" lol. I had no intention of going anywhere, or being left with all the responsibility, either. YMMV. My H very much thought he could be unencumbored if he just got rid of me...nope.

Plan A-ing a man does work with more stick.

I wonder why plan a-ing a woman works better? Because men naturally have more stick? Because we love attention? Because we like sticks? smile Men tend to need admiration more than women. Now I'm way off topic...back to topic!

Marriage is the triumph of imagination over intelligence. Second marriage is the triumph of hope over experience.
(Oscar Wilde)