I agree with Indie. Your description sounds like an affair. Affairs and PTSD are not mutually exclusive. My husband had both.

Please snoop to see who your husband is seeing/talking to when he is not with you.

AM


BW - 65
WH - 60
M - 35 years
D-day - 17 Apr 08
DD - 44, DS - 30, DS - 23
H broke contact 11/1/09
Back in love after the worst thing that every happened to us.