Originally Posted by Frdmgal
The only thing I know to do is start contacting his friends and asking. And that just feels like a crazy thing to do.

I wouldn't contact any of them because they will a) not rat him out and b) will just give him a heads up that you are asking. I would start quietly spying on him to find out what he is doing. Put spyware on his phone, put a GPS on his car. Can you afford a PI?

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