Originally Posted By: Frdmgal

I don't like that he goes and does so much with girls but I'm also not a jealous person and have always believed in the advice given to couples that you should allow each other to have their own lives and friends.


Yes me too, even though it didn't make me happy at all and he knew it. These days I'm more inclined to follow my (happily married) mother's rule 'He can go out with whomever he pleases - dozens of women if he wants'. Really mum? 'Yeah, he just can't come home afterwards'.

My mum is a rock star/goddess. Should've listened.


What would you do if you were not afraid?

"Fear is the little death. Fear is the mind-killer" Frank Herbert.