As I said earlier, PTSD and affairs are not mutually exclusive. In fact, it is just the opposite. Those with PTSD are more likely to have an affair, feeling better by getting their needs met by one or more opposite sex friendships. I would bet money there is at least one affair, maybe more, in this case. I can't remember the last time I was wrong and would have lost my bet.

When a BS asks a spouse about an affair (yep, I was dumb enough to ask and actually believe his denial), and gets a negative answer, it means nothing.


BW - 70
WH - 65
M - 35 years
D-day - 17 Apr 08
H broke contact 11/1/09
Back in love after the worst thing that every happened to us.