I am curious why your router would be reset unless your husband is doing it? I would suggest you DEMAND he stay off porn sites and install some software that not only blocks it but prevents him from turning it off. We have some other forum members who have used such software so hopefully, they will see this.

The biggest problem I see here is that you are not addressing it directly. A problem can't be solved if you won't address it.

"It is not the critic who counts; not the man who points out how the strong man stumbles, or where the doer of deeds could have done them better. The credit belongs to the man who is actually in the arena.." Theodore Roosevelt

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